Condoms condoms

I’m looking to get opinions on which condoms are the best in terms of comfortability, feeling, and most importantly effectiveness( not easily torn or broken). My boyfriend and I have been having a lot more sex lately and we’ve tried magnums but they are very thick and the amount of latex irritates my vagina and now we are using Trojan ecstasy but I’m afraid they might be too thin. I’ve considered going on birth control as another form of prevention but the side effects stare me away. Please give me recommendations on the best condoms!!