HIS Trust Issues

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Hey girls I need advice... so I recently started dating this guy (been about 2 months) and I care for him so so much. However, it is long distance right now and we’re both in college (I see him about once a month though). I’m actually doing pretty well with it and just living my own life but also getting to know him and I never question him or get upset when he goes out or anything because I trust him.

He, however, has immense trust issues (that come from his past relationship that was almost two years and then she cheated :/) and I knew it would be a challenge but he checks my snap score (he just admitted it yesterday), sent me his location (so naturally I sent mine back even though I feel it’s a bit much at this point in the relationship) and just psychs himself out constantly thinking i’m talking to or with other guys even though I’m probably the most loyal person I know and i’m trying to be patient and understanding but it hurts my feelings that he’d think i’d do that, and it’s exhausting trying to explain myself all the time and it’s like walking on eggshells because I’m so scared to hurt him.

I think he obviously has some healing to do but if you could give advice on what I could do to help? or if i should even try to be different or just let him heal on his own. Thanks!