Scared to tell family you're pregnant after losses? I'm not even pregnant again yet, but the thought of telling family scares the crap out of me. I've had two chemical pregnancies and one loss at 6 weeks, all of which they knew about. The last time I told my mom, I did a cute thing because we had known a week and a half before she came to visit so we thought all was good that time. She said, "Like for real this time?" I know she didn't mean it the way it came out and she just was surprised, but dang that was awkward. And then I miscarried a week later while my SIL was visiting. So now I feel like I want to wait until we're at least 8 weeks along and know the gender and can be like here he/she is, solid as a rock, growing away, but I also have gender reveal stuff because I wanted a party and I want to be able to celebrate with people earlier than that. I don't want to hide away our next baby, but I also want people to actually be excited for us and not like they're unsure whether it will stay or not. We'll feel like that enough I think. Idk. Has anyone else had multiple different feelings like this? What have you done with your pregnancies?