Is he cheating ? And is his sister hiding it too?

I’m going to start off by saying I am not a jealous person. I’m very civil and I’m also ok with my husband behind friends with other girls.

Two years ago we were blessed to be about to buy a house. It was a tough year between school work paying a mortgage and paying rent. Me and my husband are very close always have been since day 1. And we always talked about how we have a good relationship together. About one month before our wedding a friend of mine asked me a question if my husband ever told me how they knew each other and I said no it never crossed

My mind. She said that he used to talk to

A cousin of hers. And I was really shocked. I did ask him but he denied it.

One day after work I went to the house we bought to start doing work around it to help out what ever I can. I had called my husband to see how far he was to heat up

Some food. Unfortunately I didn’t have a stove or a microwave at the time I had an electrical stove which had one burned and you would plug it into the wall but it would taking a little while to actually heat up food.

He had not answered my phone. Which was ok with me cause I figured maybe he did not have service. Eventually he comes home and for some strange reason he was all mad. I couldn’t put my fingure on it. We were fine all day why would he come to house mad? So he eats some dinner and then starts working.

I had my little sister there and she was playing with my

phone. I couldn’t find my phone cause I didn’t know where she left it after she was playing with it. So I grabbed my husbands phone to call my phone. His last calls was this so called friend of his and said her name and then under it, it said Instagram. But then went I checked his Instagram it was deleted. So I go up to him and say oh now I know why you couldn’t answer my call you were too busy talking too ***** he was shocked. So then I said next time make sure you delete it from your phone calls as wel not just Instagram.

I had family over that night so I had to keep calm.

But the whole time I was dieing inside I get betrayed I had trusted him 100% I just didn’t understand the sneakiness. After everyone left he had sweared to me that they have absolutely nothing together that he just deleted the call because he know how I would react.

Long story short I know who this girl is. When we got engaged she group chatted us telling us congrats. For my bridal shower she sent me a message saying congrats and how she couldn’t make the party and sent a gift at my

House. And then for our wedding she group chatted us to congratulate us. My husband said she called him to

Congratulate us in the house we bought. But I found it werid for every important event in our life she always group Chatted us but for the house it had to be a personal phone call that was then deleted and basically behind my back. I told him for me to believe him that he should remove her from social media. He said no I’m

Not Going to do that but it’s just werid because of this whole Situation was viscera I would have to block delete do it all. I lost so much trust since that day. He told

Me that his sister was friends with her too. I had asked the sister how they know each other and she said we were really good friends but I never really saw them

Interacting with each other. I guess my husbands sister asked my husband what was this all about and according to My mom she heard his sister say that my husband should have used my sister in laws phone so that I won’t find out. I don’t know if I should believe my husband not having anything to do with her. Or my moms comment about hearing that conversation between them. I just lost a lot of Feelings since then.🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️😢😢😢😢