Ok so I was creeping in my bfs phone and I found he messaged his friend saying how we’ve been fighting and it’s because I’m overwhelmed with the baby because he works 12 hours, then him and his friend were saying oh then she shouldn’t of had the baby, she knew how hard it would be. 1- being a sahm is HARD. 2- yes it overwhelms me sometimes but what we fight about is me BEGGING for a break ( like 30 min nothing too crazy ) and my bf not giving me one.. it’s me taking care without help but begging for some. 3- when I ask him to do something ( make a bottle, get me a diaper/wipes, hold the baby so I can go shower/go to the bathroom ) I have to ask 10 times BUT if the roles are reversed and I’m being asked to do something I do it immediately if I don’t my bf bitches. I understand parenthood is HARD but it wouldn’t be as hard if I got help. My bf will take our baby and she will fuss and he will get overwhelmed.. even frustrated but claims I don’t work as hard as him. What bothers me is his friend is like well that’s what being a parent is... oh I’m sorry he doesn’t have kids how would he know. Rant over