So I used to talk to this guy back in June and it honestly only lasted a good month because I let it drag out for that long but it was only good for the first two weeks. We had sex and for the most part the friend group knew we were dealing with eachother but nothing more than that. They didn’t even know we stopped talking when we did. Me and the guy are pretty private w/ our personal lives. So yeah things ended because he he was playing games and doing dumb shit like not texting back for two days and saying sorry but having no explanation for why he did it. So I just cut things off after a while. Now 6 months later (he has a new girlfriend or whatever) and his friend that I had an eye on before we start dealing with eachother , has expressed interest in me. Its been a month since the friend showed me he was interested & I haven’t entertained it too much b/c they are friends and I don’t wan to look like a hoe but I feel like it’s no one’s business who I talk to and the friend is pretty private too BUT u know guys gossip more than girls so I’d mostly not have sex with him unless/until I see things are actually going somewhere MONTHS in. And me and the other guy only talked for like 2 weeks tbh so it was really nothing serious whatsoever. What would you guys do? I’m not superrr eager to jump at the chance of talking to the friend so if you girls feel like yeah nah girl don’t even do it to yourself. Then I’ll probably just fall back.

Not that it matters, but to avoid some questions. So me and the guy weren’t fuck buddies. We didn’t have sex until week two but I was with him every single day damn near and would sleep over sometimes within those two weeks & after that we only had sex maybe 2 more times after that. So three times in a month with frequent sleepovers. So it wasn’t based on sex. And we weren’t looking to just have have “a good time” type thing.