My sister is getting married and I’m in charge of the bachelorette as her maid of honor. We had an original plan but covid ruined it. We decided to postpone the original plan.

Then yesterday my sister decides it’s too much of a hotspot and we should do something local asked me to send the attendees a poll of dates. Only date that worked for everyone was in the winter and my sister couldn’t think of anywhere she wanted to go local at that time.

She then decides today she’d like to do a beach weekend away where we don’t go anywhere but the rental and asks me to text the bridesmaids about what they thought and to see if potentially they had other suggestions for places to go.

I text them(after contacting them yesterday about the poll) and essentially said none of the poll dates work for all bridesmaids so we’ll need to pick a new date. They all start saying how they can do any date the ones selected were just the better dates ect.

So I asked them for any suggestions on places to go and mentioned my sisters idea of the beach trip(requires flying) if everyone is comfortable and covid isn’t rampant there. I even asked if everyone was ok traveling.

Only one person said that was fine. No one else responded with suggestions or saying they were ok/not ok flying.

Should I text them again? I really want to narrow this down soon. I thought about suggesting a local bachelorette closer to summer on the beach which would require us picking a date that works for all.