Husband/weed

So, my husband enjoys smoking weed every once in a while. In the grand scheme of things I want to be the kind of person who doesn’t care, it’s not like he is getting us into debt or an addict of any hard drug. But I absolutely hate hate hate the smell and so therefore it does bother me. And I’ve told him this.

And recently, I smell it wafting up the stairs from the basement or he will smell like it. And I say ‘it smells funny’ and he just responds with ‘what does it smell like?’

One: he knows I don’t like it so if he’s going to do it, definitely not in our house.

Two: why wouldn’t he just be honest?

Advice? Thoughts? I know I should talk it out with him but I’m so tired these days with work stress and high risk pregnancy that I’m trying to avoid a fight. Aside from this we have a great marriage.