I can’t switch off from work and feel it means I’ll never meet someone

My job is extremely stressful. It pays well but for years I have to work late and it’s extremely challenging. I’m very anxious and overwhelmed so when I meet people, I can’t even have a normal conversation anymore cause my mind is always racing. I’ve tried dating guys but I get too nervous. I can’t even chat with friends anymore cause of my anxiety.

I’m on meds and therapy but it doesn’t help.

I have no sex driver EVER and I don’t find anyone attractive

I think I’m gonna be single forever