Feeling so torn

So for all that live in Alberta you probably heard about the new covid restrictions put in place yesterday. Partial lock down and absolutely no social gatherings until January. It sucks, Christmas is the one time of year I look forward too because it is the only time of year I get to sleep entire family. This year will be so different and I hate it. I know it’s going to cause emotional stress and tension between me and my in-laws and my husband. So my MIL has already planned Xmas dinner, she also planned a secret santa for everyone coming. It was me and my hubby and our two kids, my SIL and her bf and my brother in law and his wife were all invited. When these restrictions got put in place yesterday my husband took it as we can still have small gatherings of immediate family. I told him that was not the case and I showed him an article from the news stating that it was illegal to gather with people outside of your household. I can tell he’s annoyed with me and I know he still thinks he’s right. When we had our fist lock down back in March my MIL wanted to plan easter dinner but of course I was the bad guy saying I wouldn’t come and I’d keep our kids home with me since gatherings were not allowed then either. I really don’t want to be the bad guy again, I’m sure they are still annoyed with me from Easter. My entire family is taking this seriously. We cancelled my sons birthday, we cancelled our Xmas dinner plans etc. It sucks but it’s what everyone is having to do. I know my MIL won’t cancel and I don’t know how to convince my husband that we need to obey the rules. He says family is more important and I get that, family is so important but it is also important to keep our families safe by not gathering at one another’s houses until this virus is under control. Anyone else struggling with family members or in-laws not following the restrictions?