I'm 18 and I want to get married and have kids one day. But I honestly don't see myself having a kid  until I'm like 30.  I know I'm still heaps young and have heaps of time to worry about that kind of stuff, but so many people around me are having children and getting engaged! No hate to the people that do it young:) I just, don't see myself doing it for a long ass time, is this normal?? I have a boyfriend. with him for 2 years and he always says he wants to get engaged in our early 20s but I don't want to. I want to make sure I am financially  stable and have a career, travel the world, be selfish for awhile 😩