I want out!! Long post

Last night was the last straw for me with with my husband! He left to help friend to install steel on a garage and I asked him in a text not to get drunk after they are done working but a few beer is ok no need to get wasted on a Tuesday (He works weekend only) well he left at about 1:45pm and I get a text from my friend (the wife of the dude to picked him up) that the guys are drunk and Derek would need to be picked now cuz she is in bed since he has to work early in the morning, I was told by my husband she was bringing him home, so at about 9:00pm I have called my husband 5 times and text a few times and no response or answer at all so 9:30pm I leave to head out there to see what’s going on why he’s not answering me at all and he’s wasted drunk, I tell him I was told you need to be picked up cuz he had no ride home now and I already was pissed cuz we have 2 kids a 5 yr old and 13 yr old and it was already pass the 5 yr olds bedtime.......so after me telling him it’s time to go to get kids ready for bed he needed 1 more beer that took him 30 minutes to drink.....on our way home I asked him why he didn’t answer and he started flipping out screaming at me hitting the dashboard and window and hit me a few time and yelling that I’m a fucker fat ass lazy bitch who can’t do shit cuz he works 3 days a week and in a SAHM....well he started flipping out even more screaming trying to jump out my moving car but I locked the doors and he was to drunk to realize why the door wasn’t opening so I went straight to his dads cuz I was not going to bring him home where are 2 kids were and he was flipping out screaming I called his dad who was asleep he came out and my husband started to flip out on him cuz again he was drunk and saying dumb shit to him do after about 30 minutes there my husband walked away I found him a few minutes later kicked stuff other people property and then once I got home he started walking up flipping out screaming at me telling me I’m worthless and he don’t love me and he wants me out of his house. He also admitted to me he was sexting another girl a while back sending dick picture to her and it was all my fault too.

I don’t know what to do I have no place to go I live in a small ass town that Has nothing! There is no shelter or anything close and I have no way there everything is in his name including cars, no suck thing as Uber or anything here and if I get a job he will see how much I make and what should be in turn Bank account cuz it’s in both our names.