Should we find out gender now, or be surprised at birth?

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I’m 21 weeks with our second. We have the gender results in an envelope. Can’t decide if we should find out now, or be surprised at birth!

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I’m waiting, but my mom knows and it’s tough to not just have her tell me 🙈 I’m going to be sending her screenshots of baby items for both genders that I want along with money and she will purchase for whatever gender I’m having. Kind of exciting in every aspect honestly! 😬

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I personally think it helps with bonding if you find out

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I wanted to wait until birth with our second because she is our last baby however, with covid and our finances we needed to know if we needed to buy a bunch of boy necessities so we found out at our anatomy scan.

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I wanted to find out right away. My husband was cool with waiting but I’m not great with not knowing these type of things. I just want to know as soon as possible and would drive myself a little crazy not knowing... so we found out. I’m happy that I found out early.

Should we find out gender now, or be surprised at birth?

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