Venting Pregnant Wife

My husband & I have been married for 7 weeks & I'm 15 weeks pregnant (tomorrow). I'm not enjoying what should be the happiest time of my marriage because everything comes before me. His parents & other activities other than his job are always taken care of before me. I feel like his roommate, I hardly ever see him. He expects me to be the perfect wife, & I'm trying, but he doesn't even spend quality time with me. We argue when I bring up the fact that he isn't putting me first & he (tries, with every reason in the book) to justify his actions. Am I wrong? I thought wives were supposed to be put first. "Forsaking all others..." Or no?