Do you & your SO roleplay ?

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Tips on how to start or like ideas? I’d rate our sex life about a 6, & I’m trying to spice it up or change something. We’ve watched porn together in the past & that was fun but it’s rarely an option since ya know, kids. Lol

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Dirty talking when he’s not around, telling him all the things you wanna do to him, so when he actually gets home, he’s ready to tear you up. You could try accents, you could try being his stripper, you could try being strangers and picking each other up at a bar if they’re open. Talk about your fantasies, fulfill them, my dude said he wished he could have a sixsome with the Spice Girls, I couldn’t do that obviously I talked with an accent and put my hair in pigtails and pretended to be baby spice. Talk about porn fantasies fulfill them, fetishes, kinks, S&M, etc. have fun together.

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When Life happens, in-laws happen, kids happen, stress happens, we put our relationship on the back burner, we forget to date our partner, we forget to make each other a priority, we forget to complement each other, we forget to appreciate all the little things, we forget that we are still sexual beings even though we are mommy and daddy, we forget to flirt and have fun. When life gets too serious, you forget everything. Like when the person walks by you smack them on the ass, just having fun together, laying in the car with the sunroof open and the heat on and looking up at the stars, slow dancing in the kitchen, making your favorite meal, sending the kids to grandparents for the night or whoever babysitter, doing a blank canvas and covering yourself with body paint and having sex on it hang it up nobody will know what it is except for you, sex toys, different sex positions, watch the movie burlesque be inspired to be his stripper and just have fun together, make him feel like he is the best thing next to slice bread and trust me He Will reciprocate, pleasing each other that’s what it’s all about, mentally emotionally and physically. Dressing up, Doing officer and a gentleman or pretty woman or any other movie, be his hooker, whether you’re getting stuck under furniture in the only way to free you  is by having sex with you lol or whatever porn he’s into. Watching porn together, trying to do what they do and climax when they do, sexy clothing, being suggestive, leaning over, hands on his thigh under the table, just being all over each other like you were in the beginning, making out, pressing you up against the wall and just sticking his tongue down your throat, Role-play is all about embracing the character, getting out of your head, not thinking about the bills and all the things you have to do but fulfilling fantasies and being someone else. There’s a woman on YouTube her screen name is glamerotica101, she teaches you with clothes on sex positions and things like that. You can learn a stripper routine, find music that makes you feel sexy, find clothing that makes you feel sexy whether it’s a man’s dress shirt, something you can takeoff, lingerie. Embrace the character. If you go into it thinking you’re going to be look stupid and awkward then you will be. If you go into it thinking that you are going to slay and rock it then you will. My go to songs are Christina Aguilera: nasty naughty boy or express from the burlesque soundtrack or prince: get off, or Janet Jackson: anytime any place or rope burn or the weekend:worth it. Etc. Embrace the character, slay, be sexy, be confident about your performance, about your body. ￼ there’s edible sex, just nothing new your vagina, that’s an infection waiting to happen, and don’t do honey it’s disgusting, a little whip cream won’t kill you, around your breasts, near his penis, or an edible sexy food blindfolded taste test, playing twister by candlelight, and just having that sexual desire that you want to just tear his ass up and he wants to do the same to you, I’m just that raw animal. It can be a daddy daughter role-play, I can be the naughty school girl, I can be the French maid, the nurse, whoever you want to be, whatever fantasies you have or whatever fantasies he has. Talk about them, tell him, you know it would really turn me on, is if you would blank, it really gets me hot when I blank, let’s try something different, be his phone sex operator, be his stripper, he has every desire in fantasy, walk around naked with confidence. Maybe try a little S&M, some candlewax, spankings, writing craft, restraints, if you’re down for it pegging, I am personally not comfortable doing that to a man sticking anything up his rear end, but to each their own. There are so many levels of S&M, it’s about control, it’s about submission, it’s about vulnerability, it’s about how her, it’s liberating, it’s invigorating￼￼￼. My guy is older than me by 16 years, he’s 57, 42, and we totally have that daddy daughter thing down pat, I look like I’m 20, and when he wears a suit mama likes, it is such a turn on to see him in a suit, or smelling good and just him dominating his job and dominating the bedroom just presses me up against the wall and makes out with me and just takes my breath away, we talk dirty all the time, in bed outside of bed, we have so much fun, and he’s an amazing lover, he tries to please me, as best as he can he says he can go down on me for hours, he’s sucks on his fingers like he’s eaten gravy or cookie dough for cake batter whatever it may be, he loves the taste of me, I love pleasing him and he loves pleasing me. And it’s just about letting go, escaping from reality being each other‘s escape from reality not what you want to escape from. I’m just getting out of your head and just enjoying each other‘s company and having fun. And just be willing to try anything once. As long as it’s not something that goes beyond what you are comfortable doing.  There are so many realms that you’re probably not even aware of like swinger clubs, I don’t even know if they’re open at this point, and it also depends where you live, there’s a whole world of underground S&M and porn and so many other things out there. Sex torture dungeons etc.   I was a stripper in a dominatrix a long time ago. ￼ i’ve basically done it all, nothing really shocks me, my partner now is actually the first guy who’s been comfortable with my past, he’s been with a lot of women, himself he was an athlete in high school and college of course he was popular with the ladies, and he’s got 16 years on me, I like that he’s experienced and knows what he’s doing, if he was some virgin at 57, it would be awkward. He tells me he has a 98% success rate for giving a woman her climax. Most guys are intimidated by my past, public sex, there’s nothing that I haven’t done basically. Good luck and have fun and if you need more advice let me know.￼

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We dont role play, but we do like bdsm and watvhing porn together

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We used to. I find it a lot of fun.  I think I'll go online and buy a new outfit right now!

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