Everyone is starting off ass backwards as a baby momma, don't get me wrong not every situation is the same but from what I've seen folks get together, they're happy for a year, then comes a baby and they're broken up moving on to the next person repeating the process.

I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half because he wanted me to have his baby. I don't get to go on vacation with you, enjoy each other first? Maybe let's see if we're good at being a couple first??? That truly annoyed me, his argument was that all his homeboys are having babies. Babies, not engagement parties or weddings. Just gender reveals and baby showers. That's lovely dont get me wrong, a baby is always a gift that's just not the gift I want first.

We've been arguing about this for months, I'm on nexplanon I refuse to remove it and he's been pissed about it he got even more pissed when I went ahead and got the replacement for 3 more years. Seriously until we had some time together, proposal and gotten married the birth control is coming out but until that time I won't conform! Sorry not sorry! Single motherhood is hard I watched my mom go through it idk how she made it out alive with 5 well balanced kids. She's the real Wonder Woman in my eyes!

I just hate the dating scene right now I think I'll stay single and get some cats, sounds more peaceful anyway! Can anyone relate?