Advice

My husband and I come from very different upbringings so obviously that is affecting how we are wanting to parent.

I desperately want our daughter to have a bedtime routine and be consistent with it so she will be a better sleeper, sleep in her own bed, etc. and he just doesn’t agree. He thinks she should be able to fall asleep with us in our bed watching tv every night and honestly I’m close to losing my mind.

I NEED structure and I think it would really help her too. Kids need it. They crave it and respond well to it. He has the structure of cooked spaghetti and he thinks it’s fine for her to be the same.

WHAT DO I DO?