Is it important in a relationship to work towards things together?

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This is one main thing my relationships are always missing. The only one where there was a future, it was super toxic. Of course, my relationships don't tend to last that long, but when is long enough? I'm in my 30s and usually date people near my age.
What about you? Are there people out there who actually want to grow together and set goals together AND actually work towards them as a couple?

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Isn’t that the point?

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That's part of screening possible people to date. Finding someone who wants what you want and who wants to work toward those common goals and desires with you. They don't want what you want or they won't emotionally support you? Keep moving!

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My partner and I have our fights. We don’t see everything eye to eye but we remind ourselves we’re a team and talk about our goals.. I think it’s important

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That was pretty much the entire reason we got married and live our lives together. Im not sure what else you would do.

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Yup

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In some things yes in the others we support eachother,  me and my husband met when i was 17 he had just turned 19 he had finished high school and was in college,  I was still in high school,  we moved in together pretty early on before a yr of dating. He supported us while i finished high school, he worked and went to college.  When i was able to i got my license and he bought me a car, cheap but efficient, i cleaned houses while going to high school,  i graduated and went to college and worked my new job. We supported eachother we split the bills in half. Saved up to move to a better apt. Saved up to get him a better car. Then saved up to get me a better car since mine was cheap and ready to die. When i couldn't make payments he'd help me out. When he couldn't make payments id help him. Every year we saved up money to go somewhere nice for our Anniversary,  Miami, the Bahamas,  cancun, ect. When i was done paying my car i picked up on his credit card payments. We now have 2 kids 3yr old and newborn and are about to close on our first house. Which he sold his hobby car to have extra cash for. A healthy relationship is equal give and take, without throwing it in eachothers faces.

Is it important in a relationship to work towards things together?

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