was I wrong ??

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Im 19 and my boyfriend is 24. I'm going through a miscarriage right now and in so much pain. I can barely move on my own & my boyfriend is no help at all. I ask him fix me water he'll do it but he act like he barely wants to do that. He's just on his phone while i'm in the bathroom hurting. I made a mess on the floor cause blood was running down my leg, I asked him could he clean it up for me and he didn't even want to do that. so I got on my hands and knees still bleeding heavily and cleaned the whole restroom by myself. I asked him why does he do that? Why can't he help me? Im pretty sure other guys would help their girlfriend especially in a situation like this and he said why am I always belittling him 😕 when all I just wanted was for him to help more, was i wrong???

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Why are you with someone like that?
Please leave! You deserve better.

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I think its hard to say what any man would do in that situation. If its out of character for him, I'd say he is probably having a hard time with the loss and doesn't know how to cope. 
If its not out of character, you need to leave him. 
A miscarriage can really make or break a relationship sometimes. Just sit down and talk to him.

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He’s a super piece of shit. Cleaning your own miscarriage blood off your floor while still bleeding on hands and knees. What kind of a man would allow his woman so even do this

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My man would never!!!!! You are physically & emotionally experiencing a loss. He should be there for you

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You need to talk to him about his behaviour and lack of effort but to be honest in a situation like that is he really doesn’t care I wouldn’t be with him so end it and find better q

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Talk to him about this later when the situation is not as urgent anymore and if he doesn't understand run and never look back. In a n y situation when you're in pain your partner should support you. Bringing you stuff and cleaning up is the bare minimum here.

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you werent wrong, you deserve better

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If I TRIED to clean up after something like that I’d be “ordered” to go lie down while he does it

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I dont wanna assume hes a shit boyfriend because he might not even fully be THERE. Some people shut down and he may be going through a hard time mentally since he lost the baby too. Yes for you your dealing with more than the loss but you also may feel guilt and the physical pain. I think you should tell him how your feeling. Try not to accuse him of never helping just say hey this is a lot and this is making me feel this way and I dont feel supported can you please support me more by doing exp 1 2 and 3. Hope this helps

was I wrong ??

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