Omg I could flip my shit right now

I’m a stahm as well as a work from home mom, I tend to my son before work & their are even times I have to work with him depending on our sitters schedule. And soon as my shift Is over im back to taking care of my child. My shift is 10-7,

My boyfriends shift is 8-3, so he gets him when he gets home, but it’s like pulling teeth. I gave him to him this morning so I could nap before work because ya know being a mom around the clock & also working is tiring. I typically clean at this time and get my son straight for the day but I want a day off an this man has the nerve to chew my head off about it. Also when I say dropped him off I took him downstairs to him 😭

We live together I didn’t leave him completely.

But what I don’t get is why is it problem, I ask only the bare minimum of him an he still can’t manage to do that