Which was harder? *plz only answer if u have 3+ kids*

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I’ve heard both and I’m curious to hear thoughts. I woke up a tad freaked about going from 2 to 3. 😂

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0 to 1! After that at least you know what you’re in for with each additional one

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Going from 1 to 3 is fucking hard lol

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0 to 1 was harder than 1 to 2.

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For me from 1 to 2 and also from 2 to 3 was really nice and easy. But the arge gap from the First to the second is almost 3 years and from the second to the third is only 2 years so that was a bit more tiring to have 2 under 2. But other than that it worked perfectly fine 🙃 you can do this! 🙂🙃

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I went from 0 to 3 bonuskids and now we have a baby. My youngest bonus son was still very young so I feel like I have some experience. Our own baby is a breeze, not only is it so much easier to not feel the pressure to be perfect and to please everyone but our baby is literally the easiest baby ever. He never cries, he's healthy, he never has rashes, he sleeps all night and has 2-3 naps during the day, he always goes down to bed easy, he eats very good.
Anyways.. I voted 1-2 is hardest because that's what my partner said. Because you're giving your attention to the one kid all the time and then all of a sudden you're going to divide your attention, which isn't just hard to do by itself, the feeling on turning your older kid away or not being able to spend as much time with them as you used to feels like utter failure.
On the other hand. One has only 2 hands, and couples are in a traditional family just the mom and dad. So with 2 kids you can each grab one. With 3, you can each grab one, and one gets away 🤣.

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0-1 has been the hardest for me. We just winged the rest lol.
To me, the age gap between the kids determines the difficulty. The larger the age gap, the easier it is to manage

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I only say that because my two older kids were amazing babies / toddlers . But my youngest son is bat shit crazy if I’m being honest. Absolutely love him but damn .. when he was a baby he’d cry all the time and that kept the older ones up . Barely ever slept . Still barely sleeps lol . And he’s soooo HYPER !! I swear I went from having two kids to 6 after having my youngest 😅

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2 to 3. Simply because of the age difference. 1 to 2 was 4 years apart so the oldest started pre k and I had a few hours a day alone with the baby. Second and third we’re 2 1/2 years apart so I had two kids at home all day plus dropping off and picking up the oldest from school.

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I think learning how to juggle 1 to 2 Kidd was harder but my 2nd baby was super easy and my third is NOT. So you never know what temperament your baby will have .

Which was harder? plz only answer if u have 3+ kids

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