Is he cheating?

So I’ve been seeing this guy pretty seriously for 3 months. It’s been pretty much picture perfect until now. I was talking to one of my girlfriends (who is also close with his Ex (it’s a small town)) about him and she told me that the other day he text his ex gf asking her to come over and telling her he missed her. My friend said his ex sent her screenshots and everything but didn’t show me. We just made it official about 2 weeks ago and we’re now exclusive, this supposed happened around the same time. I don’t know how to ask him about it without feeling like I’m starting something (thanks to past relationships). I need advice on how I can approach the topic.

We’re supposed to go on a 3 day romantic vacation in 2 weeks for his birthday/Valentine’s day. I’ve met his entire family and he’s told all his friends about me. So I don’t if I should believe my GF but then again why would she lie to me, unless it was to protect her other friend.

(For those saying I should get the screenshots, my friend said she sent them on snap and didn’t save them)

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G.

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I would tell her to send you the screenshots. If she’s close with the other friend, and that this is their plan to break you guys up because she wants him back or something else, you need to see where your loyalty really is. And if that is the case, then forget him. And he’s full of crap he’s trying to have his cake and eat it to mess with both of you at the same time. If your gut is telling you something is wrong, it probably is.

B

B • Jan 25, 2021
My gut always tells me something is wrong thanks to past relationships and overthinking everything. My friend said she got them on snap and never saved them.

Mi

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Either they are trying to ruin your relationship which is likely possible or he is some trash. But assuming you guys going on vacation and everything is good and you and your bf communicate great, then nothing to worry about. Those bitches ain’t happy and trying to make you unhappy as well, don’t let them

Ja

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Why does your friend has screenshots and you don't? Ask her for the screenshots and then confront him with it. Make sure there are tome and date on them.

Ja

Ja • Jan 25, 2021
I get that, what I mean is if you were my friend I would have sent you thos screenshots straight away. So I just find it strange dhe would tell you about it but not actually send them.

B

B • Jan 25, 2021
(J) my friend is best friends with his Ex (R), I’m only friends with J. Neither of them knew we talked until recently.

Th

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A lot of relationships fail at 3 months because psychologically you can only pretend for that long. Whoever he is now is most likely what he’s going to be like.

H

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If she has the screenshots tell her to send them them. If she doesn’t I dunno what you should do.

B

B • Jan 25, 2021
She said she only got them over snap and never saved them.