Question for mamas with multiples of mamas with one and expecting number 2!

My husband and I would LOVE to start trying for baby #2 but we’re both terrified honestly! Of course our little boy turned two this past December but how is it?! Does the oldest kiddo adjust well? Is it hard on the oldest kiddo?

As far as mamas.. how is it transitioning from one to two(or more)?? Especially with having a toddler.. a toddler who is strong willed, isn’t hopping on the potty training bus very easily, is super clingy at times!

Please no mean comments!! I genuinely want to know because my little one is my heart but I know we want one more, I just want to know how it is! Of course, it’s doable. But I want some insight into real life not just the usual “you just adapt” or “it comes naturally”! Maybe that all makes sense?😬