Snoring really does ruin relationships

The feelings of resentment I get listening to him snore so damn loud all night long. He’s almost 35 years old & hasn’t done a single thing about it once in his life. I’m up googling sleep disorder doctors in our area & making him go. I will smack him with a pillow I get so angry. But then he just falls back asleep within a minute snoring like a 500 pound man. He’s not overweight either. I’ve tried everything over the counter. Ordered a special elevated pillow, mouth guards, snore strips, everything!! Except seeing a damn sleep doctor. Of course he won’t be proactive & call himself, so I will have to make him. Guess he doesn’t care since he’s not the one suffering from no sleep or hearing himself. I don’t think it’s sleep apnea either cause he doesn’t stop breathing at all. Why do all men snore I swear every relationship I’ve been in?! Wish I could know before dating them, cause I would’ve passed. Praying to God he sees a doctor soon & this gets resolved cause I can feel myself falling out of love over this.