And he knows this, accepts it. So, being that he is color blind, obviously colors look differently to him than to me. So for Christmas I let him pick out the Christmas tree, he wanted a black tree, which I thought was cool, so we got a black tree, when we were at the store I spotted these GORGEOUS blush rose pink and gold ornaments. So I asked my husband what color they were to him, he said they looked silver and gold (light pink to him usually looks grey/silver) now this may seem messed up, but my husband HATES pink, even tho he can't even see its true hue, he hates it. He doesn't want pink anywhere ever and won't budge on this subject. He's almost like a bull seeing red if he sees pink in his house, it frustrates him. So because I asked him about the ornaments and he said they looked silver and gold, I said they were, except for the little ornaments which were light pink (all the "silver" ornaments were this blush pink color, I told him it was just the little ones) he said ok thats fine..so anyway, I got the ornaments and I put them on our tree, they looked absolutely fabulous with the black tree, we have already taken it down after Christmas and what not. Basically, was it messed up not to tell him that the silver ornaments were pink? even tho he can't even tell the difference and will never know if I dont tell him. I never get to admire any pink anywhere in our home if he "knows" its pink, even the lightest shade.