My daughter is 17 months old. It feels like her sleep is just getting worse and worse. I am absolutely exhausted and at my breaking point.

We sleep trained her at 10 months. Falls asleep independently at bedtime. Has been down to one nap since 15 months.

Her schedule is:

Wake up 6:30/7

Nap 12-1:30/2

Bedtime 7:30

She has been waking up at 11pm, sometimes 12 or 1am and refuses to put herself back to sleep. I change her diaper so she isn’t uncomfortable. Hug her before I lay her down, and she screams and cries until I come console her. The only way I’m getting sleep now is to put her in bed with me. I don’t want to make this into a habit. I want her in her own bed. I could literally rock her for an hour, go to lay her back down, and she would start crying again. I don’t get it. What is going on? What am I doing wrong?