Do you get treated different for being beautiful or average or just let yourself go

I remember going out men turning necks to look at me people being nice better customer service.

But as we age

I remember going out to the grocery store and men would approach me when all I wanted to do was shop peacefully I started messing up my hair wearing random clothes from closet oldest shoes no makeup to try and look unappealing so they wouldn't bother me lol

I started wearing baggy clothes.

I stopped attending social gatherings where men could look at me I would glare at any man with a woman that was looking at me flirty. I especially hated those married men with rings on their finger holding wife's hand trying to look flirt check me out I would look pissed off.

I like to wear beautiful clothes I like to take care of myself but I'm not sure if it's worth the attention

Also I've noticed if you look not beautiful people judge you like if your shopping assume your a poor or going to steal.