Fair or unfair?

shenae • I am 32 born and raised in San Diego California. I have three other children 16,13 and 10. With twins on the way.
Husband and wife share a an account. Wife and husband both has their job Direct deposited to the account. Husband had password for online account info. Husband has his own separate account with second job direct posit going into the account wife has no access to that account ( husband not willing to give password) is that fair