My husband never does anything for me. He never takes me on dates or surprises me with flowers and atm I am unemployed but currently seeking work. Everytime we get into an argument he always throws it up in my face that he's the only one working and that he pays for everything which not too long ago before we moved States the rolls were reversed but I did not throw it up in his face. He says its only his money but when you get married everything you have becomes both of yours. I've never acted like that towards him. He doesn't compliment me or tell me I'm beautiful he's very destructive especially when we get into arguments or disagreements he always punches things and tells me to leave that he doesn't need me and then proceeds to call his mother so she can send him money to get back home. Which is ridiculous I honestly don't even know whats going on with my life anymore? It seems like I always pick the bad ones and the ones who like to cheat because my husband has already cheated on me once and we haven't even been married for a year yet. 🤦‍♀️ I feel so stupid..