Boyfriend vs friends with benefits.. HELP

I have this super cute guy that I've known for years who basically just want to keep our awesome friends but add occasional sex into it and it bothers me because I know I'm so attracted to him that I considered it but I want him to be my boyfriend then there is this other very sweet cute guy who dosent want sex well willing to wait but wants to be my boyfriend ! Idk what to do even though it's obvious I'm just so attracted to the bad boy in my friend