Having a hard time with husband

Let me start by saying I love my husband and I want things to work out.

But

I feel like I’m not appreciated in this marriage.

I’m 38 weeks pregnant and am the one who does most of the parenting of our 2.5 year old. I’m the one that cooks almost every meal and cleans the house 2-3 times a week. He will help if I ask him, but won’t take the initiative. He won’t say thank you unless I point out what I’ve done and our sex life is almost non existent.

I’ve brought this up so many times but nothing seems to get the message through. I’m at the point of wondering if I want to be someone’s room mate for the rest of my life, because that’s exactly how I feel. There is no intimacy and I’m now tired of talking about it or trying to get him to see things from my perspective.

I don’t know if I’m expecting too much and being unreasonable