So I’m 20 years old going on 21 and my boyfriend just turned 23. We’ve been together for 2 years. He is moving into his own apartment next month on his move in date and he’s currently staying at his dads right now until his move in date. He purposely works 15 min from my house just to be closer to me bc the towns we live in are 30-35 min apart. I currently live at home with my parents too but the problem is..2 years ago at my house, my dad walked in on us being pretty intimate and it got ugly. Now, my mom knows me and him are still together and she’s fine with it and my dad knows to but I feel like I have to tip toe around him when it comes to the relationship bc he gets mad and makes me feel bad about being with him bc of a mistake we both made 2 years ago as we were both extremely remorseful.

Anyways, I want to be able to spend the night with him here and there ( his dad doesn’t mind nor care) and I feel like at my own age, I should be able to but I don’t think my parents will allow it. I feel like if I talk to my mom alone and have her hear me out then it might be possible but she’s gonna want me to ask my dad and he will immediately shut it down and make me feel bad for asking. I don’t wanna have to lie and tell them I’m somewhere I’m not and do it anyways bc anything can happen but I’m not a child either. It’s even more stressful bc my car is down rn and I’m working to get it fixed, so whenever me and my bf hang he does all the driving and I feel bad when I have to tell him, I can’t sleep over bc of what my mommy and daddy say. I respect my parents 1000% but I just wanna have quality time with my boo especially since I can’t bring him over bc of how my dad acts. What should I do??