I have an issue with porn in my relationships. I don’t like when my partner watches it. He told me he didn’t like me watching it. So, I thought we were on the same page.

He didn’t want to tell me that he had an addiction because he didn’t want to hurt me, but I found out the hard way. There was so much stuff I found. I don’t want to leave him, but he broke my trust... BIG TIME. Hell, who knows maybe he’s just using it as an excuse. I don’t really know.

I want to help him through this. He does NOT want to go to therapy, which I totally understand coming from him. I’m just so worried that it’ll keep happening. I cant stop worrying. He says he feels terrible. He didn’t want to hurt me at all. I feel bad but I’m just so upset by it. He’s been trying so hard to make me feel better and show me that he’s trying to fix the problem. I just feel like something is still going on...

If he has this problem, does he still think I’m attractive? Does he still love me the same?

How do I help him through this?