My husband sucks in bed. He just pounds hard and when I tell him it hurts, he thinks its in the good and sexy way. It hurts to the point where I no longer want any of his advances. I feel like a lot is missing, mainly passion. He also has a big ego and he watches porn a lot.

I literally just feel like a human blow up doll instead of his wife. I'm not into it anymore. He doesnt even want to do foreplay and uses the fact we have kids as an excuse. I really dont know why he has such a big ego when it comes to this because I dont fake orgasms- lately I havent had one. He just releases and we're done. I cannot have terrible sex for the rest of my life.

He used to be better in the beginning of our relationship but since we have gotten married and had kids, he sucks. I mean, I enjoy some rough things but all the time, its like annoying. I mentioned for him to buy lube (he literally wants to ram me while Im dry, no foreplay expect him getting a bj), try toys, games and he just says soon Ill get foreplay and etc.

Anyway, how do I tell him this so he will listen? He makes me want to divorce or cheat.