Hi all, so a little back story. I met my then boyfriend in June of 2019. He always liked me and we always spoke but I was getting over a breakup so didn’t want anything at the time. I saw him as a friend to begin with, and then as things progressed and we spoke more and hung out more things just felt natural and we got together. We moved in together and we now have a beautiful baby boy who is 6 months old. When we First got together maybe 6- a year into it he was the sweetest, always called and texted me to tell me he loves me and how much I mean to him etc. Always kissed me throughout the day, and wanted to be near me, cuddle me, she showed me so much affection. Well fast forward to now, the last few months probably since our son has been born he has stopped all that, he only ever kissed me on the lips when he leaves for work but half the time I’m asleep as he leaves so early. When he’s home he doesn’t hug or kiss me, when he has days off he doesn’t want to be around me, or cuddle me or kiss me throughout the day anymore. He kisses me on the forehead and back when we cuddle but never on the lips anymore. We have been arguing a lot lately and he never seems to care to fix things or that he hurts me. I truly feel he doesnt love me anymore and is just not interested anymore.

When I asked him why he doesn’t want to kiss me on the lips anymore he said “I do all the time” which I said obviously you don’t if not I wouldn’t be having this convo or mention it 3 times within the last month. As we sort of argued more he said “ it doesn’t cross my mind to kiss you throughout the day” to which I replied if you love someone it should cross your mind to kiss them because you love them and it’s a form of love and intimacy. Since then he has been kissing me more but I still feel like it’s so forced. I can’t get over the fact he doesn’t even want to or cross him mind to kiss me because he loves me? He once would kiss me more than anything and now I have to mention it for him to even do it?

Am I over reacting to this? I just feel if he did once before because he loved me then why has he stopped if he claims he still does love me and why did his response change twice as I asked? I feel like hes loosing interest or maybe not in love with me anymore. Back in November he proposed, and it was the 2nd best day of my life as our son was the 1st.

What do I do? Am I over reacting or looking too much into this? Is it just because he is comfortable in this relationship now that it’s been 1.5 years? Please someone help because I googled it and the reply’s are all he’s cheating.