Should I talk to my ob at my 28 week appointment about my feelings on having baby.

My baby has a cleft lip and my feelings are all over the place I feel like I still don’t have a lot of information I feel like this is still my fault even though it’s not I got a 4D private ultrasound of her and I cried I cant help but to feel sad not because I don’t love her or didn’t want this pregnancy I had 6 losses so she was 100% planned. I just have a lot on my mind.

Would she even care I’m not sure I had post partum with my son I’m afraid it’ll be the same with her 🤷🏻‍♀️