Anybody else friend jealous ??

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I may have a friend whose jealous i got pregnant before her again,. Im on my 2nd one. And all she can talk to me about is her partner and her are gonna start trying for there 2nd one too.

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Maybe she isn't jealous maybe you have another got her wanting another. I find sometimes pregnancy is contagious. I got pregnant and then some ladies I know got pregnant with in two months of me. I don't know the situation just a different perspective

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I don’t see it as a problem. But I have been in a similar situation where I was pregnant and I was trying for a certain gender. When we found out we were having that gender, my friend decided to start trying for the same gender. She didn’t get what she wanted and on top of that her sweet baby had spinabifida. Unfortunately, our friendship isn’t as close because I got the gender we both wanted and I think she blames me a little for choosing to get pregnant again. 😔 so just support her in her desires but don’t pressure her either way.

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All my friends are on the other side of the world and I haven't seen them for over 2 years! One of my best friend fell pregnant on my wedding day which was the last time I was home in Norway. 6 months later I fell pregnant with my first. Due to covid I haven't been able to see any of them. Then My other best friend and I fell  pregnant basically at the same time last year, she's due late March and I am due April. Happy thing is that the one that fell pregnant at my wedding is also due with now her secound as well!!
My story is I would do ANYTHING to be there pregnant with them. It was always our dream. But we might not be able to see each other for a very long time. And it really hurts that we can't be there for each other in such an excited time of our lives. Covid sucks!! At least our kids are going to be the same age and when we finally meet again it's going to be such a heart fell reunion ❤ Jealousy should not be a thing when we go through these exciting times of our life. We women need to be more supportive of each other  😊

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I don’t know if jealous is really what it is , more like encouraged and having baby fever. It sounds like she wants to be pregnant too and is excited to make it happen. This doesn’t sound like a situation where she had been trying before you and you got pregnant first.

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I don’t think she’s jealous... a jealous friend would be avoiding you or acting funny towards you. Now if she just didn’t even discuss it and popped up pregnant after acting as if she didn’t want to be pregnant then ok.. I could see where you would think that but I’m not getting that. I’m thinking maybe she’s wanting to be pregnant with her friend. It kinda seems like you may be feeling a way about her wanting to have a baby... as if she’s going to be stealing your shine by having a baby around the same time as you. Hopefully that’s not the case.

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I had a miscarriage February 2020, my best friend and her husband decided to start trying with their second right after I had my miscarriage, she ended up pregnant in May. I was sooo excited for them! She encouraged me to start trying again so we did and ended up pregnant with our second baby. She is due in two weeks and I’m due in April. we are having our babies same year, again!, same as our first, lol 
there’s nothing wrong with wanting to be pregnant with your friend! 
I think that if she’s jealous she’d be avoiding you, or acting a certain way towards you, just sounds like they wanna have a baby too nothing wrong with that!

Anybody else friend jealous ??

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