Around 8 weeks..

Hi ladies im around 8 weeks & 3 days pregnant but I still haven’t had my first appointment 😓 I went to the ER because it’s my first pregnancy & I had some minor bleeding but they made sure my baby had a heart beat which he/she did.. is it normal to go this long without an appointment? I have a damn phone appointment with the nurse but that doesn’t do anything for my baby. I hate RI 🙃