I am only a couple weeks into my second trimester and ftm. I'm not showing or anything yet some of my sister inlaws know I'm pregnant and I didn't deny it ofcourse.

Now here is my problem... my sister inlaws have kids (they're grown okay 🙄) around my age and I wanted to surprise them with my pregnancy since it took me a short while to get pregnant and I know it's something everyone will be excited for. I was SUPER excited to announce to everyone my first successful pregnancy and slowly slowly I keep finding out that this person knows because their mother told them or that person knows because it was being LOUDLY discussed etc and now I'm honestly not happy at all like I can't have that 5 minuites of joy that I wanted to have to myself and also share with everyone. Like it's my first child???? Why take that little but away from me?

Am I over reacting and being too emotional or are my feelings valid?

Honestly now I couldn't care less whether I tell anyone or not because everyone knows. For those who don't know I'm pregnant they can find out when I birth my baby.