My 20 month old goes to my MIL once a week and to her great aunt once a week for about 3 hours. MIL has commented how the great aunt (her sister) have bad eating habits and my child seems to always have food in her hands when she's over there. I'm pretty chill because if my baby isn't hungry she won't care to eat besides once a week if her great aunt wants to spoil her that's fine. She eats there more properly than at my MILs. So she continues that she might want to say something to which I said, for now it's fine. Unless she gets fed only sweet stuff then I'm going to say something.

I don't know what her deal is but I don't see any problem here. Am I being too relaxed?