sexually frustrated!!!

sex with my boyfriend is literally horrible. we’ve been dating for 3 1/2 months && we’re both 19. he cums so fast everytime we have sex. i’ve tried giving him head before we have sex to make him go before to see if it would help and it doesn’t. also, yesterday when things were getting hot i tried hinting i wanted him to go down on me and he wouldn’t. so i asked why he wouldn’t and he said because he never has before! & i told him i would help him you know and he told me no he doesn’t want to. moral of

the story it’s hardly ever satisfying for me and i don’t know what to do. :(

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S.

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Dont give him head if he doesn’t give you head. If you’re not fine with him not helping you finish stop having sex with him altogether because he doesn’t seem like he’s interested in learning a females body. Most Young ones are just ignorant and selfish lol ooor introduce a toy to help yu finish during sex.

Ta

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Straight up tell him you’re not being satisfied and you won’t continue to do anything with him if he doesn’t give your the same effort you’re giving him.

Sa

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Tell him you’re not satisfied and if he won’t satisfy you, you’re going to get it from someone else. I would hate being used like that, you deserve to feel good too.

H

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Yeah I’d leave if someone didn’t at least try to get me there. Sorry I don’t like dating boys I want a man 😂Anyway sbest advice dump him and find a new one.

Tu

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You give him head but he won't give you head? You satisfy his needs but it seems like he doesn't care about your own because he won't even try. He seems immature and sounds like you're feeling used. My best friend going through the exact same thing and it's destroying her. She is so upset. Men need to satisfy their women. Doesn't matter if he's "Never done it before" - I never sucked a dick since I met my man, and he taught me. TEACH eachother things. Try some desensitizing penis spray you can get it at a sex store and I'm sure online. He should not give you any excuses, don't take that shit. Give it another few chances and if things just aren't working out then maybe there's someone out there that'll take care of your needs. Best of luck 👍

J

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That’s so annoying. I can only imagine your frustration. If I were you I would start taking charge, who gives a fuck about what he wants in the bedroom when he’s the one that won’t even go down on you. Girl you should try one last thing before giving up on this mans and that’s using the phrase “you get more bees with honey than you do vinegar” meaning try to be all sexy and like just try saying something like “baby I just really want you so bad, and I know you would love to make me cum so why don’t you just give me head because I know you’ll love how wet you make me” yada yada, you know what I mean! If he doesn’t even do it then then that’s stupid so don’t give him head either

Be

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Get a satisfier and use it .

ma

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He's a teenager. His sex hormones are at an all time high! Its not surprising he finishes quickly.