So my boyfriend is 38 and I'm 26. Many ppl say we are at different stages in our lives but it's so weird I was having this conversation with him about how I wanna settle and we should be saving money to maybe get a place and he was totally the opposite saying no we should travel, work abroad, party and just live. Is this weird? Because I thought at his age, he should be the one wanting to settle and I'm the opposite but he is giving me totally opposing vibes. Is this a red flag? Because I wanna settle and have a family when he doesnt want this "he didn't directly say it but that's how it seems" and I don't for a second question his love and commitment to me so that's not even a question. I just don't know how to feel about this