Ok first a few things for background,

I don’t usually find myself going after guys physically, I tend to start to like them more once I get to know the way they think and such. So, it was interesting to me that I started to really become attracted to this new guy physically.

Second, I’m super shy about dating. I’m mainly always worried that I would push my wants and desires onto others and so I tend to take a back seat to most things. Keep a neutral ground.

Now that that’s out of the way, what can I do? There are moments I think he likes me back, and others that he treats me like one of the guys. I just don’t know what to think and where to start with him.

I have read too many things where one says guys like a girl who takes charge and asks him out, but also you should let the guy take charge because if he’s not chasing after you then he’s not worth it.......

I’m lost, please help