what should I do

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so my babyfather has another child prior to our relationship he has 6 year old son & i have a 8 month daughter with a son on the way.. but i found out he gave his child mother a vday gift from edible arraignments .. should I be upset & say something or leave it alone because its not that serious

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I personally think that’s something he shouldve discussed before giving. There is no reason for you to “find out.” An edible arrangements are pricey. Also... valentine is usually romantic holiday.

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1) I see you said you don’t even know for sure that he sent them. Stop making assumptions. 
2) it’s sad the amount of people who don’t think it’s appropriate for him to get his sons mother something. My dad always bought gifts for our mom from us, since we didn’t have money for gifts when we were children. My mom also always bought gifts for my dad, from us.

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Am I the only one who thinks he setting a good example for his son?
Just because they're separated his is showing  his son to respect women even if the relationship doesn't work out.

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Why won't you just ask him?  Don't make it sound accusatory but ask him if he got something for his son and his BM?  There's no need for games here, just ask. This is a good time to talk through expectations for special occasions and your boundaries too.
And honestly, maybe consider blocking her social media posts.  You can be friendly and cordial with her and still have boundaries.  This is something that is feeding your insecurities... it's time to shut it down for your own emotional and mental health!

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You're assuming that it was from him, for all you know she could have a new boyfriend she hasn't told anyone about, she could have a secret admirer or she could have bought them for herself. Are you friends with her on Facebook?

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Did he get something for you too? Personally I wouldn’t be comfortable with that at all unless he’s sending it to his child and not meant for the mother...

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Please tell me it was for the child 🤔

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