Tinder fail - advice needed
So I will be going on a school exchange in Europe. My city is on complete lock down so I found it fun to get tinder passport and see maybe if I can create a connection or get to know someone on tinder before I arrive
Or really just get a taste of how the men are there.
I met a lot of super nice guys - exchanges instagram and saw they were actually cool people who were legit
Didn’t exchange ig with a. Lot of them only about 4 of them.
One of them I matched with was a perfect click
It’s like we knew each other before , the conversation flowed so nicely and it was genuinely great
He was also the most beautiful man I’ve ever seen
Stunning blue eyes and a gorgeous smile- like he came straight out of Hollywood.
I followed his ig made sure he was legit and I also Facebook stalked him- so he was 100% who he was. I’m good at investigation also found his business online and googled his name. Saw he had friends and relatives with the same last name so he passed that check.
We would have daily convos - and our backgrounds are kind of similar so it was great we had a lot in common.
He slid in my tinder by saying “ I’d honestly marry you” I of course rational was like you don’t even know me
But slowly his sweet words, adoration of me played me and I fell for it.
After a week he started trying to sext me, I was hesitant and I was like are you only talking about sex with me because that’s your only intention ?
He made some good points so I dismissed it- he was simply showing his attraction for me.
He said he’d do everything for me, move, change cities etc etc ... be he truly thought I was special
Knowing the amazing girl I am.. I started to believe him. It seemed great- we’d send voice notes etc etc .... and I was going to call soon.
So we sexted again, he asked for pics of my ass/ he saw on my ig that I had a nice body shape or the way my jeans fit so he wanted to see more
Via the direct on ig I send some booty pics
And then he wanted more so I sent a type of twerking video ( sorry tmi) I was wearing underwear the whole time and I cut my face out of the video you can only see a little of my eye when I turn back to see how I was twerking but you can’t really distinguish me. Only if you would count my beauty marks or know my bathroom.
He screenshotted the video .... I did not ask why because he kept complimenting me and I thought it’s just my ass so whatever I’ll ask him sooner or later. But I didn’t wanna be weird you know .. the guy had shared some family problems with me that he didn’t have to so I thought I could trust him.
So after that day we continued small talk and his answered got shorter
And he was less sweet
And he took really long to reply
I played along didn’t say anything
Then he tells me how he’s down because he has family problems and he’s not in the mood to talk
I tried to be nice because his messages seemed genuinely depressing.
He just liked a few messages and I said if you need anything I’m here , I know I’m far but let me know how I can help
I meant more emotionally.
He doesn’t follow a lot of people on ig but I do notice he does the follow / unfollow game with girls.
I also noticed that he didn’t answer me, but he liked some random pics of a girls ass or beach pictures and he didn’t reply to me.
He sees my stories and doesn’t say anything
Yet when we started he’d be all over me.
I don’t care anymore at this point. Yeah he’s probably the sexiest guy ever but it doesn’t really matter anymore
I’m just a bit worried about what he screenshotted.... I mean in reality I don’t KNOW HIM. Really .... it’s just my ass.... should I be worried .?
And I did learn my lesson. I’m so much smarter than this and I am disappointed in myself for following for sweet talk and crazy good looks.
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