How much do your partners help you with things?

Since the baby has been born I’ve been having a really hard time adjusting to all the new responsibilities I have and how my husband just... doesn’t.

He does the garbage and shovels snow and gets the dog food etc. but I’m in charge of groceries, cleaning the house, dinners/cooking, the baby, and I work full time. I’m exhausted and on the weekends I get so annoyed when he gets to sleep in and fart around all day while I’m taking care of the baby and his naps and feedings etc. we’ve had so many talks about it but nothing has changed. I’m wondering if I’m just expecting too much at this point and if I just need to buck up and realize this is part of being a mom?