Frustrated
Lately my boyfriend and I have been sleeping the living room. Him in his recliner and me on the sofa, which are right right next to each other. I think it's a very comfy sleeping situation because tbh I really dont like sharing the bed with him. Sometimes he'll wake me up around 4am to go to bed and cuddle, but otherwise we stay in the living room.
He has back problems (so bad he gets pain meds, but his shit insurance doesn't pay for a whole month of them so he only gets enough for like 10 days). He decided to lay on the sofa so I could rub his back and he fell asleep like that. He always falls asleep quickly. If he falls asleep on the sofa I'll let him stay asleep before I wake him up and ask if he wants to move to the recliner or go to the bedroom to go back to sleep. Well tonight he's being a grumpy asshole and when I tried to get him to come to bed with me or at least move to recliner he just wouldn't budge.
The last time he did this he woke up with a very tight back and couldn't bend over and could barely move without walking like an old man, he's nearly 24. I know he's a grown man and can make his own decisions, but I hate it when he doesn't listen to me when it comes to him physical health. I hate it when he hurts more than usual and it could have been avoided if he just listened to me. I take care of him because I love him and seeing him not be in as much pain makes me happy. We've been living together 5 months now (together 4 years). I help him a whole lot and I'm always looking out for his best interest so when he does this it upsets me because we both know he is going to wake up in immense pain.
I'll probably get shit for this post but if by chance some one understand please share. It's hard seeing a loved one in pain and not being able to do much to help
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