Does anyone have a mother in law who literally just....sucks? There is soooooooo much back story but I’m seriously about to lose my shit. In August, me and my fiancé split up. Only for a month. I moved back in with my parents. And we ended up working things out and now we are doing great. But I can not deal with his mother. When I moved out, she texted me saying if I take ( my fiancé) for child support that she is going to “let my son know what kind of person I am” and basically that she would “turn him against me in the long run” which I had no intentions of taking him for child support and figured we would work things out but she was afraid it would take away from the money that my fiancé gives her every month. And even if I would have it’s not her business. Lol I’ve raised our son basically alone his whole life because my fiancé works all the time and I don’t really expect him to come home and care for our son after working 13 hour night shift. ANYWAYS. In October she started coming around again. Never apologized for all of the nasty things that she said. And always throws slurs towards me and it’s fucking annoying. She does It every single time she’s here and my fiancé works night shift so he sleeps during the day and that’s when she comes so he doesn’t even hear her. I usually get over her shitty remarks but yesterday just really pissed me off the more I think about it. I’m pretty particular with my sons diet. He eats everything that we do but I add vegetables, for breakfast he has fruit, a whole grain and usually a scrambled egg or whatever I make. He eats snacks also it’s not like I don’t give him anything sweet but I prefer to give him healthier sweets. Whatever. So yesterday, she brings cookie dough. And she gave it to my son and I said no he didn’t eat a whole lot today I don’t want him eating that so she keeps telling him over and over and over “mommy said no” meanwhile it’s not like my son even wanted it or cared lol... he’s 1. Then he tried to climb on a chair and onto my kitchen table and I said no honey. Don’t climb up there I don’t want you to fall. She looks at him and said “mom said no!!” He tried touching the outlet cover and always tries to pull them out and I said no and she continually told hom “mommy said no!” “Mommy doesn’t allow” bla bla bla. And the more I think about it, the more it pisses me the fuck off. Like he understood me when I said it, stop telling him that MOMMY SAID NO. Like I literally think she is trying to make me look like the bad guy or something. Not that my little boy understands because he’s so young but wtf??? I don’t even want her coming here anymore. All it does is put me in a bad mood. Does anyone else have to deal with a mother in law that drives you completely insane ? How did you deal with it? This isn’t even 1/10 of the shit I deal with. Just something that really annoyed me

-also her 9 year old daughter is a stuck up brat who doesn’t even speak to me when she comes to my house. She always breaks my sons toys “by accident” she popped his ball pit “by accident” like it’s driving me crazy guys. I’m about to explode. I’ll make food for tony to take to work and for when he wakes up so we can eat together and she’ll say “can I try that it looks good” and then shelll get her and her 2 daughters a plate without even asking! Then put the dirty plates in the sink so I get to wash them and then I get to cook tony another dinner for work because they ate the leftovers I would have sent with him 🙄 this is so much to read I just literally need to vent to someone who maybe understands