Since I had some free time I was going to go visit mom because I haven’t seen her in awhile but because last time we were there and she mentioned having a lesbian coworker who likes strap ons, etc. (she gave us every detail because she told my mom every detail) my husband doesn’t want me to go if there’s a chance she will pop up at my moms! This is ridiculous and absurd! I told him why would she even pop in? I really don’t think they are friends like that. I don’t understand his reasoning behind this and no I’ve never cheated or done anything for him to not trust me in fact it’s the complete opposite. Is this him being controlling over me? Been together almost 20 years if that matters. Since we were 16.