Ladies, I will you tell what my relationship is like right now. Be honest if you think I am the one in the wrong, and I’m being a bad girlfriend.

My bf and I have been together for 4 years. We don’t live together and see each other maybe once or twice a week. Sometimes more sometimes less.

He started going to this one bar near his home. He went to it all the time. He would go after work and sometimes stay there until 1am. I started to feel a bit insecure because we never saw each other. I started to question if he was going there to see another woman.

I talked to him about it and he would say that I’m just being insecure and jealous and nagging at him and he found that unattractive, and I said I find him laying in bars everyday unattractive!!!

He eventually stopped going so much. So things got a lot better.

I’ve been telling him that I would love for us to live together and one day soon get engaged. We are both in our late 20s and our 5th anniversary is coming up.

I’ve been getting upset that he doesn’t seem to want to move in together, so I’ve been trying to tell him how I feel. I don’t want to be 30 yrs old living with my parents.

Again, he just says that I bitch and nag at him all the time.

Last night we had an argument and he told me that I’m a “crazy stupid bitch” and that he never wants to live with me or have a family with me

What do I do wrong ? 😔